What Is Milk Sweet Milk?
MilkSweetMilk.com is a dating platform for adults who are interested in breastfeeding or nursing. It aims to connect lactating women (or women who want to induce lactation) to men or women who want to suckle or nurse. This is a very niche group, so the site is small, with a limited number of users.
In this review, we’ll explore some of the features, how to create your account and fully complete your profile, and some pros and cons of the site. We’ll also let you know how much a subscription will cost and how safe it is to use the site. We’ll wrap it up with some closing thoughts and answer some FAQs.
Pros
Allows ANR or ABF folks to easily connect with others who share their kink.
Can message other users for free.
Many profiles have pictures.
App available on Chrome/Android
Cons
Design is a little dated, the site feels stuck in the 90s.
Niche community, so there aren’t that many users or that much activity on the site.
No real community features like a forum.
Login Process
The homepage is dominated by the Milk Sweet Milk login and sign-up sheet, so it’s super easy to join. Make sure you’ve got “Sign up” selected, and you’ll be prompted to enter your email address, create and confirm your password, and create a username. Next, you’ll complete your profile, but if you don’t want to do it right away, you can click continue and finish it later.
The next page will ask you to upload a photo, but you can skip this step if necessary. Interestingly, there’s strictly no nudity allowed, but this doesn’t mean the site is safe for work – there are a lot of chest pictures. You also don’t need to include your face in your photo.
Finally, you’ll need to click on a link that will be emailed to you to activate your profile. Once you’ve done that, you can start browsing the app. Later, when you’ve exited the site and want to get back in, your MilkSweetMilk login details are your username/email address and password.
Profile Completion
You can fully complete your profile during registration, or you can easily click on your profile picture and “Edit Profile” to complete it later. The profile has several sections, starting with a little about yourself. This has information on your gender, the gender you’re looking for, your location, marital status, kids, etc.
After that, you’ll do the About Me section, which includes a section to explain your ANR/ABF status. Here, you’ll tick all the items that apply to you, and this includes things like “Experienced in suckling/nursing”, “New to ANR/ABF”, “Currently lactating”, or “Here to suckle/be suckled”. This section also has some interests and hobbies for you to tick off, as well as your relationship preferences i.e. friends with benefits, discreet affairs, erotic chat, etc.
The next section is the Appearance section, where you’ll indicate your ethnicity, body type, eye and hair color, and height. You can also indicate if you have any health conditions like a physical or mental disability. That’s followed by a Work and Education section, which asks about your education level, job title, and annual income. Finally, you can enter links to your other social media profiles like your SnapChat, Kik, Twitter, or Instagram accounts.
User Account Quality
There are a limited number of users, but this is expected on a site that caters to such a specific community. The site is most popular in North America, the UK, and France. For both male and female profiles, about 50% have a picture and completed profile.
The accounts seem to be legitimate, there were no behaviors/signs that suggested scammers or catfish. This is another app that doesn’t have a matching algorithm in favor of allowing people to choose their partners from browsing the site and the classified ads. Since the user base is reasonably small, this is a fine way to do it.
Dating Features
Email Messaging
You can chat with potential matches or partners by sending them messages on the site. This allows you to chat and see if you’re compatible, before swapping contact details and planning to meet in real life. This is also great for fantasising online if that’s all you’re looking for.
Unfortunately, with a free account, you’re limited to text-only exchanges (with emojis, if you copy + paste them). You can’t send or view pictures unless you have a premium account. This is an interesting way to nudge you to purchase premium because a text-only conversation is not as engaging as it could be.
Send Gifts
Another way to engage with other users and to catch someone’s attention is to send them a virtual gift. This feature is exclusive to premium users and allows you to send a potential match an image of anything from a teddy bear to a champagne flute to a diamond ring. When someone’s inbox is full of messages, this could be a way to set yourself above the rest.
Classifieds
As an alternative to browsing through profiles on the search page, you can post or view classified ads. These are a way to specify exactly what you want and allow people who fit your criteria to message you. When browsing the classifieds, you’ll look through a list of titles and can open the ones that interest you. Only premium members can post Classifieds.
These titles are mostly variations of “Looking to Suckle in (City name)”, but there are also some more unique ones like “Topless Maid Service” or “Bonafide Breast Worshipper”. You’ll find everything from single women to married men and even couples here. Some ads have a picture attached, you’ll see a thumbnail in the list, and see the full picture when you open the ad. This is an interesting way to attract attention and also feels reminiscent of the 90s.
Search Criteria
While searching for your perfect partner on the site or the app, you can narrow down your dating search using the criteria. With a free profile, you can specify the gender you’re looking for, an age range, and which country and state they should be in. You can also only search for users with pictures, or users currently online. Finally, you can search for someone specific by entering their username.
With a premium account, you get access to even more dating search criteria. You can search based on any feature on the profile, from their education level to their hair color, to their marital status. You can even search based on specific hobbies or their ANR/ABF preferences. This allows you to find someone who ticks every box you have on your wishlist, but remember on a relatively small site, the pickier you get, the less likely you are to find a match.
Prices & Costs
The Milk Sweet Milk website has a few ads but is mainly monetized through selling subscriptions.
Premium Subscriptions
With a free account, you can browse profiles, view pictures in the pictures tab (not in messages) and start one conversation per 48-hour period. With a premium account, you get some added perks:
Start unlimited conversations.
Send and view pictures in messages.
View when last a user was online.
View social media links.
Add a Classified ad.
Premium is available either monthly (billed every 30 days) or quarterly (billed every 90 days). This subscription will auto renew at the end of the period. It costs:
Premium Monthly: $14.95
Premium Quarterly: $29.95 (about $9.98/month)
How Safe Is Milk Sweet Milk?
Personal Information
The good news is that while your personal information may be shared with third parties (for example, financial services to process your premium payment), MSM states in their Privacy Policy that they will never sell your personal information. They also state that they take care to ensure that their data partners follow best practices for safeguarding data since your data will be subject to their privacy policies.
Fake Profiles?
We couldn’t find any fake profiles from extensive testing when using the MilkSweetMilk app. There’s also no mention of fictional/fantasy profiles in the Terms of Use or Privacy Policy, suggesting that you’re safe from site-run profiles meant to keep you spending money.
One way that this could be improved even more is by introducing a verification feature, with some sort of verification about your age or photos. The site seems to be reasonably safe from scammers even without verification.
Final Thoughts
MilkSweetMilk has limited features and seems to be stuck in the 90s, but we still liked it. The features that it does have work perfectly fine, so you’ll be able to browse classifieds and message other users. You can use the site for free, with some limitations, or you can purchase the reasonably priced premium subscription to have a slightly better experience.
If your kink is adult breastfeeding or adult nursing relationships, and you’re in North America or the UK, this could be a great dating platform to find your perfect match. If that’s not your kink, then the site isn’t really for you, but there are tons of other great dating sites out there. For these reasons, we rate MSM 6/10.
FAQ
Is Milk Sweet Milk Legit?
Yes, the site is 100% legitimate.
What Are ANR And ABF?
ANR is an Adult Nursing Relationship, and ABF is Adult BreastFeeding, both types of relationships where men or women nurse and suckle on (other) women.
Does Milk Sweet Milk Work?
It depends on you, but it’s a real site with real people so it should work. Your chances are better if you’re in North America because that’s where most users are.
How To Post A Classified On MilkSweetMilk?
If you have premium, head to the Classifieds page and click “New Listing”. You’ll add a title and content to your ad, and optionally add a photo. Click Post, and your Classified will appear.
How To Delete My Milk Sweet Milk Account?
You’ll head to My Settings and click on the red “Cancel account” button under your email address. Enter your password to confirm your choice, and your account will be deleted.
