What Is TheSubDomClub?

TheSubDomClub is an online dating site for those who are into BSDM and are specifically looking to explore a submissive dominant relationship. The interactive platform helps connect a sub with a dom and vice versa. Not only is the dating site open-minded when it comes to the master slave type of adult fun, but also accommodates just about any sexuality and gender identity under the sun.

The platform uses swipe style matching, search features, automated messages, and social media style spaces to help members find their perfect match. And for those who like to play with more than one person at a time, the group chat will be a great feature. We go into more detail on all that’s on offer and what it will cost to use. So, read our The SubDom Club review to find out if this is the site for you.

Pros

• The site is part of a group of online dating sites that has a very large user base

• It is extremely inclusive of every gender identity with over 51 options to choose from

• It employs an AI customer service bot that is helpful in answering questions fast and is available 24/7

• A very easy-to-use platform with an intuitively navigable design

Cons

• There is no mobile app available, but the website is optimised for use on other devices

• An active subscription is required to use the most basic of features like reading messages 

• The site will artificially produce interest by sending automated interactions making it seem like members are getting a lot of attention

• Rather difficult process to cancel a VIP subscription (members can’t cancel without contacting the site’s support team)

Login Process

To get started simply choose one of the following three options on the homepage to select whether you are a master or want to find one. No matter which option you choose you will go through the exact same signup procedure:

• Seeking Sub

• Seeking Dom

• LGBTQ & Other Signup Options

From there you will be asked to complete a mid-sized questionnaire that shouldn’t take more than a minute or two to complete. You will be asked to provide the following information: 

• The gender(s) you are interested in (Men, Women, Couple, and/or Non-binary people) 

• Your gender (Man, Woman, Couple, or click “See All” to select one of the 51 other gender identities)

• Your location

• Date of birth 

• Email address (alternatively sign up with your Google account) 

• Create a password

• Select your role (Sub / Dom / Switch)

• Select all your turn-ons from the available 31 BDSM-oriented options

• Create a username (the site will create one automatically if you are not feeling too creative)

• Your preferred age range

• Add up to 4 photos or short video clips (at least one photo is needed as your profile photo to continue)

• Confirm your email (either enter the code or click on the activation link that was sent)

• Write a short profile headline

• Write a longer ‘About Me’ to describe yourself and your desires

• Agree to the T’s & C’s and content policy

At the end of it all the site will ask you to “GET THE APP”. There is, however, no SubDomClub app and this will simply save a shortcut of the site to your device’s Home Screen. Doing this will enable push notifications for your device.

Profile Completion

Once your account has been created, the information from your registration will already populate your profile. Everything (excluding your gender, email, and password) can also be edited later on. SubDom Club profiles follow a rather standard design that most sites tend to use these days. Some profile sections will still be empty after registration and you can add to the remaining sections at any time. These include:

• Adding 2 more photos or short video clips (this is on top of the 4 from registration)

• Your pronouns

• Type of relationship you are looking for (options range from serious relationship to swinging)

• Your background:

• Sexuality

• Gender expression (androgynous, butch, feminine, etc.)

• Ethnicity

• Meyer Briggs personality type

• Current relationship status

• Star sign

• Lifestyle:

• Smoking and drinking habits

• Your thoughts on drugs

• Diet and exercise

• Preferred meeting place

• Your stance on safe sex

• Appearance:

• Body type

• Height

• Body decorations (tattoos and piercings)

• Eye and hair color

• Body hair

• Genital size

Members are also able to verify their account from the same page that they edit their profile. Simply upload a copy of a photo ID to get verified. Verified members get a badge and are far more likely to be seen in search results seeing how unverified profiles can be filtered out.

User Account Quality

Because it’s required for everyone to add one photo during the signup process, you won’t ever come across anyone who doesn’t have at least one photo on their profile. In all honesty, it does seem a touch fishy how every single profile we came across online had a perfectly edited face photo as a profile pic. Or is this maybe the part where we should rather put on a tinfoil hat?

You should also be aware, and always keep in mind, that the SubDomClub platform is part of a network of dating sites that share profiles. And as their Terms and Conditions state, you don’t actually know if the user you are looking at has signed up on the same platform as you or on one of the other network service partners.

Dating Features

Matches

If you know how Tinder’s swipe style matching works then you should be familiar with Matches. Here you work your way through the provided profile stack and either like or skip profiles one at a time. On TheSubDomClub you can view a summarized version of profiles on a carousel that you can flip through without needing to click like or skip. Only skip or like the users that you want to interact with, or not.

You can also look at their full profile by clicking ‘view profile’ or message them directly from the Matches page. If you need to review a profile you’ve already clicked on, simply click rewind to see their profile again. Messaging without first matching with someone and using Rewinds are only available to VIP members, but anyone can like and skip as many users as they like.

Polls and Spaces

While Polls on TheSubDomClub are not 100% geared toward matching with others, it’s a rather fun place to spend some time. Answer other polls or create your own and see what the community is getting up to. You’d be surprised how kinky these polls can get.

Spaces brings a social media feel to the online dating platform. Here you can follow certain categories and see what other users are posting. It’s a great way to find and connect with like-minded naughty individuals who are into the same kinks as you. Categories include:

• LGBTQIA+

• BDSM

• Fetish

• General 

• Sex Toys

• Couples and Groups

• Swinging clubs

• Voyeurism

• Mature

Advanced Search

On a site that’s part of a dating network that shares its large pool of users, finding what you are looking for is half the battle. For that purpose, The Sub Dom Club offers a rather in-depth search feature. As a free member, you can edit most of the search parameters, but VIP members have access to exclusive filter options. 

Free Basic Search

• Location

• Distance from location (up to 100 miles)

• Gender (Male, Female, Couple, and/or Someone else)

• Their role (Dom / Sub / Switch)

• Age range

• Filters:

• Online now

• With photos

• Previously viewed

• Vaccinated

• Genital size

• Body hair

• Body decorations (tattoos and piercings)

• Ethnicity

• Build

• Drinking and smoking habits

• Sexuality

Advanced VIP Search

• Filters:

• With adult photos

• With videos

• Verified users only

• VIPs only

• Top rated

• Interests (a selection of 31 BDSM-oriented options)

Promote Me Messages

With great power comes great responsibility and the Promote Me function is one that can easily be used for the wrong reasons (and can also make things seem a bit fake). But we can’t help but appreciate its effortless simplicity just a little bit. With ‘Promote Me’ activated (which is the default), the site will automatically send introduction messages on your behalf to members they think you will like.

Members can choose to type their own message for the site to use in their Advanced Settings. For those who do not personalize their Promote Me message, SubDom Club will send one of their curated selection of generic, yet very flirty, messages on your behalf. It is possible to disable your account not only from sending introduction messages but also from receiving them.

Group Chats

Group Chats on TheSubDomClub allow multiple people to message each other at the same time. This is perfect for those interested in having group fun who might find the one-to-one messaging tedious. Only VIP members can create group chats. Free members can contribute to group chats, but won’t be able to read messages from other free members.

Group Chats can have up to 15 members in total (including the user who created it). To create a new Group Chat, navigate to the Group chat page and click the button with the red ‘+’ icon. Select who to invite from the list of members you have recently interacted with, or search for specific members, then click ‘Create’.

Prices & Costs

The SubDom Club site is a subscription-based platform that allows only limited access to non-subscribed members. As a free member, you can browse the site, view member profiles, and use Matches. But access to other features, even the most basic ones like reading messages, are behind a paywall and require an active VIP membership. Free members have very limited messaging capabilities on the platform. They can only use promoted messages (which gives no control over who it is sent to) and send only one message to a Match (but with no way of reading any replies).

The cost of the VIP membership depends on the subscription duration purchased. The 1-Month and 3-Month options are both recurring subscriptions that will automatically renew. The 12-Month subscription is however only a once-off purchase. Billing is also done discreetly and ‘bluemousesafepay.com’ is all that will appear on your statements.

Subscription Packages

Perks of VIP

• See who has liked you

• View members’ explicit images 

• Watch member’s explicit videos

• Priority placement in matches and searches

• Read and send messages

• Join public group chats

• Create private group chats

• Use rewinds in Matches

Free Member Capabilities

• See who has viewed your profile

• Follow members

• Like profiles in Matches

• Send one message to Matches (won’t be able to read replies)

• Promote me messages

How Safe Is TheSubDomClub.com?

Fake Profiles

At first glance, it may seem like the platform is rife with fake profiles. But members should take the Promote Me function into account. So while profiles on TheSubDomClub are genuine (as is stated in the terms and conditions as well), it is only the initial communications that are fictional and site-produced.

This is however all in the aim to increase interaction on the site. But wouldn’t you rather know the person who is messaging you is actually into you and chose to talk to you? The fact that there are only about 6.5k monthly visits to the site also suggests that the chance of finding someone who is actually active and online is rather slim compared to other dating sites.

Use of Personal Information

Because The SubDom Club is part of a much larger network of dating sites, your profile and all the information that you’ve added to it will be displayed on multiple other sites as well. There is unfortunately no way to know which sites these are exactly. It is good to know that the site will never sell any of your data, and if you choose you can remove your information simply by disabling your account.

Final Thoughts

TheSubDomClub is just as kinky as you expect it to be. Whether you are seeking a sub, a dom, or any kind of master slave relationship, you are bound to have some fun here. For those who want a truly authentic experience, we suggest that you disable your account from sending  and receiving Promote Me messages.

The interactive platform has multiple ways for you to find a match. There’s also the social media style Spaces along with lots of kinky adult content that will keep you entertained for ages. TheSubDomClub caters to anyone who is either a sub or a dom in the bedroom, it doesn’t matter what your demographic is, your sexual desires are all that matter here.

FAQ

What Is TheSubDomClub.com Really?

TheSubDomClub is an online dating site for BDSM-loving people of any sexuality or gender identity. If you are a master looking for a sub, a sub wanting to find a master, or even a couple who are into group fun, then you are welcome on the platform.

Is The SubDom Club Legit Or Not?

Yes, The SubDom Club is a legitimate online dating site. Automated introduction messages and the sharing of profiles across a large network of sites may give a different feeling. But these are only in place to increase the likelihood of having fun interactions online.

What Do Real SubDom Club Reviews Say About It?

People submit mixed reviews about the site. A lot of the SubDom club reviews are about what real members loved about the site after having successful experiences. There is also a selection of people who are rather peeved that the dating site isn’t unique enough, or that it seems like a scam.

I’m A Bit Older, Will I Still Find Matches On TheSubDomClub?

Yes, by adjusting your “preferred age range” settings you can choose to see only members of a certain age. The Senior SubDom Club (which is run by the same company) is also a great alternative for any silver-haired foxes to try out.

How Do I Cancel My TheSubDomClub VIP Membership?

Members can’t cancel their SubDomClub subscription on their own. You will have to get in contact with the support team in one of two ways.

1. Through the Chatbot:

• Click on ‘Help & Support’ then ‘Contact us’ from the navigation bar

• Open the ChatBot and click ‘VIP Subscription’

• Send a cancelation request

• Follow the instructions on the subsequent email

2) Contact Support Directly:

• Navigate to the terms and conditions

• Click the support team link under section 4 “Term and Termination”

• Select “Account Enquiry” as the category

• Send a cancelation request

• Follow the instructions on the subsequent email